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Ashvasan, a voluntary service organization, was started in 1993
to reach out to the senior citizens, the aged and the lonely. We have
realized that changes in our value system, disintegration of the joint
family system into nuclear families, inflation and high cost of living
have put tremendous pressure on senior citizens making them feel insecure,
uncared for and inadequate both at home and outside. Over the years Ashvasan
has touched the lives of hundreds of senior citizens in Bangalore.
Whether the person is staying in a family environment or staying
alone or in a Home for the Aged, the key word to this problem is
loneliness and attitude to life is the key to better living. Ashvasan
has sought to address itself to this problem. Volunteers of Ashvasan
contribute care and concern and spare time to share it with the lonely
without expectations of any kind, to restore a sense of self esteem,
confidence and dignity in them. The warmth given relieves the loneliness
of the senior citizens to a considerable extent.
With retirement or aging come the changes in family relationships physical
adjustment to the process of aging, inherent concern for health, fear of
rejection, unfulfilled ambitions, feeling of uselessness and low self esteem.
High stress and increased personalization of death (last) all amounts to a
sense of loss of identity.
Our attitude and behaviour, our enthusiasm and the zest and zeal for living
play a predominant role in determining adjustments rather than external
factors. Aging really has to be an inevitable progress in one’s capacity
to adapt, adjust and survive physically and mentally. We have also learnt
that people with good mental health feel comfortable about themselves, are
able to meet the demands of life, feel right about other people and are at
peace with themselves and in harmony with others.
All our activities are geared to cultivate aging graceful with no self pity.
To have a purpose, to become self reliant, self sufficient and at the same
time to accept dependence without resentment.
We feel that being together for the last several years, each one knows who
they are, accept who they are and love and care for themselves and get
satisfaction from the simple every day pleasures. Can accept their own
shortcomings and that of others. Can take life’s disappointments in their
stride. Not controlled by emotions but can control them. They do not over
estimate their abilities. Can laugh at themselves.
Thus, from the feed back received, life is transformed and becomes meaningful
when we are able to give love and consideration to others. Have relationships
that are lasting and satisfying. Respect differences in other people and
feel a part of a group to share and communicate, and feel a responsibility
to others.
The foundation has grown from strength to strength during the last 15 years, touching the lives of hundreds and thousands of senior citizens in the city. Be it by providing them with leisure activities, companionship, seminars, food, clothing or medical assistance, Ashvasan has been striving to restore a sense of purpose in the life of its senior members. Please read further in this website about the work being developed presently by this wing of Lalita Shivaram Ubhayaker Foundation for the Arts.
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